Do you know how patient Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) used to be with his wives?!
When Aysha Rali Allahu Anha used to get angry, he (PBUH) put his hand on her shoulder and made this Duaa :"O Allah forgive her sins, remove the anger from her heart, and save her from fitan (temptations) "
Do you know how romantic he (PBUH) used to be with her?!
He (PBUH) used to wait for Aysha Rali Allahu Anha
to drink, then take the container from which she drank and drink from the same spot where she had put her lips!
Do you know how gentle the best of mankind used to be with his wives?
He (PBUH) used to let Aysha Rali Allahu Anha
put her feet on his honorable knees to ride the camel !
He (PBUH) even used to call A'isha (radi Allahu anha): 'Ayesh' as a nickname!
Now I wonder why some Muslimat think it is hard to find a romantic yet a righteous husband?! When someone take a role model in his life, he would be impressed by them and imitate them, isn’t?!
For example in our time, it’s so normal unfortunately to see some young Muslim men taking actors and singers as their role model and becoming so impressed and influenced with them, so they imitate them in the way they are wearing their clothes, the way they are doing their hear, the way they sing, they speak, they walk, etc … So why it is strange to find a righteous Muslim man who is so impressed by the best of mankind and take him (PBUH) as his role model in treating his wife and being romantic with her?
This is why I pray to Allah that you are trying your best, as a righteous Muslim man, to follow the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) not just his sunnah in ‘Ibadah (acts of worship) but also his Sunnah in romance
No comments:
Post a Comment